The f@&k you principle

So for the last 3 years I have been undergoing major changes. On every level possible. Growing pains. Quite unpleasant at times. Since we are all connected, everyone in your life gets to feel those growing pains right along with you. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has done some major shifting. If you haven't gone through personal changes yourself, then changes people in your life have made, left some major impact on you to deal with. Anyways, the last few days I had weird dreams. People whom I have severed ties with essentially asking me for a change of heart. The sincerity of their attempt to sway me in continuing to provide love, comfort and safety to them in my dreams seemed all too real. Well here's where my F@&k you principle comes in. I guess even in my dreams. Anyone who knows me on a one on one level has experienced my "giving you my shirt off my back" attitude. As long as you are in my heart I will make it happen to the best of my abilities. If it makes you happy, I'm happy. Nothing expected in return. But if I feel, yes, feel, that you are insincere on any level, then I have to sever our ties. Just like that. Like I never knew you. The phrase " I wouldn't piss on you to put out the fire someone set you on" has come out of my mouth once or twice. Now don't get me wrong. I don't have a mean bone in me. And vengeance is not my thing. Takes away way too much from myself. But once you have plowed the field barren with your insincerities, I simply have zilch to give.