The totality of your experience

So you didn’t succeed in the job you so absolutely knew was meant for you. So you didn’t live happily ever after with the one you thought you were meant to grow old with. So the experience you are currently having didn’t turn out to your expectations. You solidly had a destined outcome attached to it, yet it did not materialize the way you imagined. It’s simply because your soulself, your subconscious, directed you to enter into this experience for total different reasons than you could have ever fathomed. Your eternal spirit doesn’t go for an absolute and final outcome. Your eternal spirit directs you to the next level of surrendering to life as is, without having the concrete finite goal only your ego seeks to find. Dismissing the experience as a failure annihilates the totality of your experience. Don’t succumb to that disservice. Even though the disappointment, that sense of loss, is understandable. Succumbing to the dismissal of the experience as a failure only leads to a repeat of the same experience with different parties involved each time. Getting the hang of things does not mean to achieve the finite goal that you think you need to achieve. Getting the hang of things means the realization that the totality of your experiences adds up to exactly who you came here to be.