Nuts and Bolts

I know all these single people. Looking for a relationship. Ever heard anyone say this: " I don't want to end up alone?"

Well, the problem with that is, apparently you are already alone. Hence it must be that there are parts in your alone-ness that leave you feeling some sort of way that you don't appreciate.

The way of not feeling that way is not to bring a person into the equation and hold them accountable for something you are responsible for. After all, you are only bringing yourself to the table of relationship, including those exact parts that make you feel some kind of way that you don't appreciate.

Sweeping that under the rug of the ruse of a relationship is not fixing that for you. That's how those seemingly happy relationships come apart. They were build on a shoddy foundation. You have to become your own magnificent column in the temple of your life.

So if the walls come crumbling down as the people in your life fall away, you will be able to hold yourself up.