Stick to the story or the art of appreciating hand-me-downs
“You are an open book, Heike.” How many times have I heard this in my life. And what does it even mean? Of course, you, as well as I,...


In due time
It’s been more than a couple of years since I had a lover. I’m not in a rush to get another. It took me the first couple of years to...
About assorted fruits and vegetables or the mysterious unfolding of myself
There has been one person in my life, who has known me on so many levels since I was 19 years old. As our life is but a mere nanosecond...


The curing of modern day calamities
I have had this terrible affliction with attachment all my life. To this day it remains a prominent feature. So instead of shunning it,...


Stalemate
The other day I got caught up in a somewhat intense conversation. It literally went a tit for a tat. Like a poker game with each of us...
Open for Interpretation
The other day I shared a story with someone. I left out a functional detail. Something minute that had no influence on the point of the...


The number you are trying to reach is no longer in service
I hurt people before. Not vindictively. Not spitefully. Much more as part of a defense mechanism that was based on fear. Nevertheless,...


For Every One, there are one thousand more
Let it shut. Allow that so-called window of opportunity to close. Stop clutching onto its worn out frame with the hinges coming off. It...


To Be ..or to be nothing
Just yesterday I wrote something to a friend, and he immediately corrected a spelling error. Then he gave me feedback on the actual...


Happiness is not a competition
I have had these synchronistic conversations lately with all sorts of different people. The key component coming to the surface, as our...