

Limiting my unlimited version
I’m not really a rule person. I’m more of an all or nothing kind of person. Due to particular experiences in my life, these stances are...
Strutting my own stuff
Sexy. It finally made it on my least favorite word list. Sexy- Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. In it’s primary...


Nuts and Bolts
I know all these single people. Looking for a relationship. Ever heard anyone say this: " I don't want to end up alone?" Well, the...


Man up or step off
This is just one of my very personal opinions of my very opinionated repertoire. Man up or step off. My youngest child was adopted by my...


Black Moons, Falling Stars and being who you are
I had this nice little conversation the other day with a gentleman co-worker of mine. We are no where near anything close to being in the...
Crushing Dreams and other things adults are good at
I was overhearing a conversation while on break at work the other day. It was about someone’s stepdaughter being enrolled in a school for...
Strokes of Luck and other Synchronicities
Someone once told me I remind him of a cello. Echoing the remembrance of what sadness feels like, without actually being sad. Having said...


Tilling, watering and watching myself grow
I’ve been to paradise once…or so they say. I was actually on vacation somewhere at a very beautiful and delightful location. Literally...


Leaving good enough alone
The things you don’t struggle with, are not your assigned lessons to learn. It’s easy to walk around and tell others to “ get on with it...


Becoming yourself without the flames from Hell
My friend and I were talking the other day about compatibility in a relationship. He is putting his last relationship behind and appears...